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Feral Family Weekend Away

By Catherine Sim - 5th June 2010

Just returned from a very convivial weekend away with a group of school families who fortunately had similar parenting methods to us. If you’ve ever been away with people who have completely different practices you’ll know what a relief it is to kick back and know no one is judging you for letting your kids run a bit wild.

They did all go feral but we picked all the ticks and leaches off them regularly and most of the time we had a pretty good idea of where everyone was apart from the time when someone got stuck in the outside dunny for an hour and no one missed them. That was Sophie actually and she’s a grown up. She had a nice little sleep so it wasn’t wasted time.

What was really lovely was the way the men, in particular, group parented in such a loving and natural way. Each child was theirs to play with, wrestle with and enjoy. It seemed effortless and by the end of the weekend, we were a village.

Men do cop a bad wrap (often from us I’m ashamed to say) about their detached and perfunctory parenting and maybe we are all just lucky that we landed such good dad material, but it was a joy to watch the kids thrive under such relaxed, good humoured, male attention. Of course they were freed up from the, “Have you eaten? Gone to the toilet? Where's your jumper?” stuff that someone has to do, but  it's difficult to resent the mum jobs when the they are doing a fine dad job.

Packing up for six people while the King played golf with the kids did however make me a bit cranky but perhaps the key is that we don’t mind so much doing that stuff as long as they share the load in other ways. As long as they do share it, otherwise we become resentful and old before our time and that doesn t make anyone happy!

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Camping Dads and Feral Kids

Yes Libby. The top end brings the truly feral out in nearly all children. We took three months a couple of years ago in a camper and although we had some degree of camper fever at times,particularly my partner who had never spent such an amount of "quantity" time with us all, it remains pretty much the highlight of our family time. Not sure whether I could let him do it on his own. I m confident he would do a fine job. It s more that I would be insanely jealous of the adventure. You re so right. Everything looks just wonderful around a fire, waiting for that roast ,with a glass of wine. We re going to leave the trumpet at home next time though.

Camping Dads

Two dads, no Mums and 5 kids doing a camping trek in the top end. I know that 4 (my 4) are already feral. The others are from a feral free zone and find our close association with the earth (aka dirt) challenging. I am not sure how it wiill all go with communal washing buckets and dig/y/o loos. But I know at the end of the day it all looks pretty good around the camp fire when the roast is in the camp oven.

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